Sacred Love Initiation Blog

Missives from the underworld.

The Love-Light of the Feminine Dec 04, 2025

Through this inner union process, you will discover your own essence, because there's not going to be this like layer of personality in the way, because you've you'll have married your humanity and yo...

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The Erotic Soul & The Sacred Nov 27, 2025

The erotic soul and the sacred is a realm that really allows you to bring the the divine into your relational reality, right? And so this is where it gets kind of like really juicy, because
where you k...

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Becoming Conscious in Love Nov 20, 2025

What we're looking at is becoming conscious in love.

Once we start to really, like, see our own patterns and see the deeper blueprint of what is there for us, then that is how we become conscious in lo...

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Your Unconscious Relational Blueprint Nov 13, 2025

Most people are operating from an unconscious relational blueprint. And what that means is that we have these ways that we have been wired relationally in our upbringing, through childhood, but also l...

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Integrating your Erotic Wilderness Nov 06, 2025

KATE : For the feminine and for women, it is like this instinctual wilderness that is directly, like, correlated to our erotic nature. When you speak about, you know, agriculture and that history, it'...

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Our Current Relationship Crisis Oct 23, 2025

What I want to do is just start with this first point, which is why men and women struggle to meet each other.

And I think it's a worthy point to begin with, because I think this is the basis of many, ...

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Erotic and Divine Oct 20, 2025

The erotic is the secret ingredient for sacred love, and it is the magic that has been desecrated since the tearing down of the temples and the burning of the witches. But without the current of the e...

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The Cock of Consciousness is your Birthright Oct 15, 2025

Kate : Can you just say a bit more about the cock of consciousness? Because that's such a beautiful phrase. And like, what does that mean? 

Speed: I don't know if David Deida coined it, but he certainl...

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Reinstating Polarity Jun 18, 2025

So what’s the vulnerability here? Like, what would it take to be in surrender to your husband, so that the polarity between you can come into right relationship?

It sounds like at the moment you’re i...

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Three Steps to Deeper Love Jun 17, 2025

 1 : Know thyself

Our task is to cultivate a container where we are whole enough and rooted enough and rested enough in our nervous system to be able to hold the totality of reality. So we cultivate ...

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Opening Your Heart Jun 17, 2025

We have our habits, right? We have the pathways to us that are familiar, that are patterned, that are wired. And so part of our journey of coming home to love is rewiring our patterns, rewiring the ha...

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